In the article 7 traits That Make Men really Attracted to a Woman, Laurel House, the writer, plays to the crowd saying:
men are looking for deeper, more substantive and enduring traits
Ok, like what?
Here are seven traits that really turn a guy on:
You are your best self, raising the bar and inspiring him to be his best self too. Whether it’s your business that you adore, or you have emotionally and creatively fulfilling hobbies, the point is that you don’t need him. You don’t need him to fill a void or make you happy.
This dovetails with Ruthie Dean recommending women say “You don’t define me” and “My life does not revolve around you” in the article I linked in the post below. This stuff is women taking what they think impresses them about other women and/or what they think a man finds impressive about another man, and foisting it on men about women. It’s all about appearances. Somehow, if all of this imagery and propaganda was to evaporate and be replaced by elevated images of home makers and mothers, women would embrace that and use it superficially as well. It is a part of their fallen nature.
Meanwhile, take their advice. DO NOT need your man. He hates that.